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It’s Your Life

Giving your creativity room to grow and flourish, both mentally and physically, is one of the greatest gifts you can give yourself. There is room in your home and your life, you just have to claim it. It just means getting rid of the clutter and junk that has been accumulating over the years in your surroundings and mind like the proverbial junk drawer.

Simplifying your life can be done to any degree that you’re comfortable with, from a complete purge and reboot to just getting rid of the trash lying around.

 It’s about living within our space comfortably and with room to move around. It makes our homes easier to clean, it’s easier to get to what you need, causes less anxiety, and eliminates that constant feeling of always needing to be doing something. That chair Aunt Ruth gave you when you got your first apartment, that you now must squeeze by every time you want to sit on the couch can be passed on to someone else. Those utility bills from 6 years ago, or copies of checks the banks used to mail you (remember those?) are taking up valuable real estate in your limited space. And the 10 candles that have to be moved to get to the extra printer paper are really not helping. Clothes that no longer fit and projects we never finished only make us feel bad. Free yourself of the burden of all the physical objects that have attached themselves to you and made you their guardian. I’m not advocating the “only keep it if it sparks joy” method, because frankly the toilet brush and handy little tool to unstick my garbage disposal really just don’t bring me joy. Keep what you love and need.

Cleaning up your finances also allows you more room to breathe and prosper. Take a good look at where your hard-earned dollars are going. Drop the subscriptions, services, and memberships you never use, shop around for the major monthly expenses like car and health insurance, ask your credit card company for a lower rate, or apply for one with better rewards, and please stop paying for long term storage of the lawnmower and yard tools, or bedroom set, until you get that house. Sell them and buy them when you need them. Try to make your banking and bill paying as simple as possible. With those extra few dollars at the end of the month, you can get to that museum, see that film, or have dinner with friends.

Technology can also suck up a huge amount of time if we let it. If we let it. Unsubscribe from those emails you never read, make a file for anything you’d like to read later, and handle or deal with the rest. Check it only as often as you feel you absolutely need to. There’s social media, the ultimate wormhole. It’s not downtime, it’s not creative time, and it’s not helping us to be better people. Time lost falling down the rabbit hole of social media is overwhelming. Arguing with strangers about leash laws or how often to water a cactus consumes so much of our time as well as emotion. Set a time limit, keep scrolling when something annoys you, and stop arguing with strangers that have nothing better to do than irritate others and look for attention.

Our time is one of our most precious assets, and limited in hours as well as in years. If you find yourself unable to take 15 minutes or an hour to do something you love, take a good look at where your time is going. Write down everything you do for a few days. Now be honest with yourself. If it’s important to you, make time for it. Allow yourself time with family and friends, for downtime and daydreaming, for adding input to your creative well, and for practicing your art. Life doesn’t always have to be about crossing things off of your to-do list. Unburden yourself of what you don’t want or need in your life.

Simplify, Simplify

-Henry David Thoreau

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