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We, the people, are the documenters of history. It is our stories, our artwork, and our photographs that future generations will look upon to get a true insight into our society. It won’t be Jeff Koons multimillion dollar balloon animals, nor will it be the latest best-selling novel, the current viral tweet or trending tik tok videos that they will seek out.
People are fascinated by the everyday lives and struggles of the “common” people. From the earliest cave drawings and logbooks of the first explorers, to the diaries of Civil War soldiers and a beautiful young soul named Anne Frank. From field sketches on the battlefields and poems scrawled on napkins to photographs tucked away in books. These are the words and windows we study to view what life was truly like.
The greatest artists and writers throughout history created works that have withstood the test of time. But we are just as fascinated by DaVinci’s notebooks and observations on life as we are with his creations. And the words of Charles Dickens are just as relevant today as they were almost 200 years ago. Truly great art survives, and so do the stories behind them.
But to dig even deeper, to see and read and feel what people were experiencing, how they were living and working, how they were reacting to what was going on around them, we turn to the “regular” people. The journals, the sketches, the photographs of everyday objects they put together for us. This is what allows us to get a true vision of their existence.
And that is why what we do today, by creating stories, by making our art, by documenting our experiences and lives and struggles and observations and reactions to what we see and hear, is so important. Document your reality. Your words matter, your art matters. Your journals, your blogs, your photography, your creations, they all matter. Your life matters.
I’ve spent the last several weeks examining and dissecting my life to see when and how it got so complicated. I had once again fallen into that trap of constantly pushing, rushing, trying to accomplish as much as possible every day, and the things I love to do, writing and drawing, had gotten relegated to the bottom of the list.
It’s so easy to get sucked into that whirlwind of productivity, the endless chores and commitments, the spinning on the wheel that gets us nowhere. The faster we try to finish everything, the faster more gets added to the list.
I have now prioritized and refocused, and with that came a huge sense of relief. The outside world can be crushing to a desired life of individuality and creativity.
When you feel like you’re losing yourself, when your joys and creativity are being stifled and suffocated, when you start putting yourself at the very bottom of your to-do list, it’s time to stand up for yourself and just say “hell no!!”
It’s not easy, but you’ll never regret it. The more we allow ourselves to thrive, to create, to be individuals, the happier, healthier and more successful we become. And the better we can be to and for the people around us.
Make yourself a list of 10 things you can do to simplify your life. Mine included going from 2 part-time jobs to 1 full-time, running errands only once or twice a week, and reducing the number of “things” I needed in my life. I purged my possessions and eliminated the clutter around me. It also included spending less time on social media.
Now make a list of 10 creative things you’d love to do. That’s your new to-do list. I’ve been dying to build something; a table, a shelf, anything.. I have a list of topics to write about, subjects to study, and drawings I’d like to do. I feel focused and excited again.
So what is it that you would like to do? You’re the only one who knows, and the only one who can make the decision to do it. No one is going to tell you that you should spend more time creating. That has to come from you.
You have to believe in yourself before others can believe in you.
A few simple ways to change focus from that hectic schedule and unopened email to the people and things that are most important in our lives. Sometimes it´s as easy as just moving things around so we see them in a new light. Changing our focus can help change our attitudes, reduce stress, and renew our appreciation for what we have.
There are times when we become so absorbed in our daily activities and routines that we often forget to notice and appreciate the special people and objects around us. Instead, what we do see is the dust on the pictures hanging on the walls, the pile of papers building up on the table, the stack of unopened mail, or the shoes forming a pyramid at the front door.
With our hectic schedules, it’s so easy to become distracted and focused on other things. Just processing the massive amount of information that the world presents to us on a constant basis can leave us drained and inattentive.
Sometimes it’s necessary to take a step back from our lives to see what’s right in front of us. Often, all it takes is simply moving these things from where we’re so used to seeing them for us to notice them again.
A few suggestions:
- Rearrange the paintings and posters you have hanging on the walls. You loved them when you bought them, but when was the last time you really noticed them? Move them around, replace the ones that you aren’t crazy about with the ones stacked in the back of the closet.
- Replace some of the family photos on the walls, tables, or mantle with more recent ones. Or better yet, take some new ones this weekend, frame them, and put them out.
- Move some of the furniture around. Start with some of the smaller pieces, and try to create some cozy seating areas, or an inviting conversation nook.
- Change the things you display. The crystal clock that you’re mother-in-law gave you that you never liked but felt compelled to leave out? Replace it with a small bowl of shells from your last trip to the beach, that sculpture you picked up in Shanghai, or maybe a pretty wine bottle that you and your loved one had shared.
- Put the piles of papers, unopened mail, and unread magazines in matching baskets or bins. It’s much more visually appealing, as well as manageable.
- Take almost everything off of your bedside table. It’s the last thing you see when you go to bed, and the first thing you see when you get up in the morning. Leave the alarm clock, a reading lamp, a favorite book, and no more than a few things that inspire you, or have special meaning.
- When you do have the time to dust, don’t put things back exactly where they were. Keep moving things around.
- Replace those generic office supply storage containers on your desk with some favorite objects. Grandma’s teacup makes a great paper clip holder; Dad’s coffee can from his workbench makes a terrific pencil cup. Have some fun finding the things you have that you enjoy looking at and using.
- Take ten minutes out of your day to really see someone who is important to you. Pay attention as they speak, hear what they’re saying, watch their expressions. If they can’t be there in person, make that phone call. Tell the people in your life that they are important, and that they matter to you.
Life can easily get overwhelming and distracting. Take a few minutes to clear your mind and your space. By simply moving things around and surrounding yourself with the people and possessions that matter to you, you’ll find it much easier to change your focus to what is truly important. Once you can concentrate on what really matters, you’ll enjoy a much better perspective on life.