Find Your People

Putting your work out there can be very intimidating. Chances are, though, if it’s something you’re passionate about, there are other people out there who share that same passion. It’s just a matter of finding them, as well as giving them the opportunity to find you. Whether you join a community already in existence or gather people together and make your own, you’re not alone.

One of the few positives that social media has bestowed upon us is the ability to connect with others who share our passions. Unfortunately, most of the attention has been directed towards those that are harmful, contentious, and misinformed. But there really is good out there, there are good people all over the world, and the challenge we face is seeking them out and connecting with them. And in order to make that happen, you have to share your work.

Carve yourself out a space online, whether it be a blog or a website, and buy yourself a domain name. It’s always the right time to put yourself out there. You don’t have to be perfect, and your work doesn’t have to be either.

Whether you’re a writer, a photographer, a graphic artist, a painter, a musician, a jewelry designer, or anyone else creating something, there are others doing something similar. They’re just waiting for you to show your work, to share your passion and your process, and to offer up their encouragement and stories. One group often leads to another, and you will begin to become part of a community of like-minded creators. The deeper into your niche you explore, the better chance you have of finding your place and finding your people.

Every one of us fears rejection. And you will find those who don’t like your work. Probably tell you all about it too. They carry no weight or importance in your life. That’s not why you do what you do. There is no such thing as universal validation. The only validation you ever need is your own. It’s your life to live, your passions to pursue, your art to create.

Do what you do, always keep making things, and share them with the world. You’ll find your people.

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4 responses to “Find Your People

  1. During my time as a hairdresser, there was this saying: “Even the worst hairdresser has his fans, and the best hairdresser his haters.”

    I think your story captures that essence so well. Thanks so much for sharing!

  2. Great advice. I’ll have to come back and read it again.

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